Qytaydyng oqyghan-toqyghan, myqty-myqty jigitteri qazaq qyzdaryna ýilenu ýshin Astanagha kele jatyr dey me? Rasynda da Qytayda bala sanyn shekteuding saldarynan úldardyng kóp tughany anyq. Jalghyz balany erkek kindik, yaghny múrager jasaudyng nebir aila-tәsilin qoldanghan ghoy. Milliard adam qoysyn ba, sol aila-amaldarynyng bir prosenti nәtiyjeli bolghannyng ózinde qansha er bala dýniyege keledi desenizshi! Sóitip qazir Qytayda qyzdargha qaraghanda úldar sany kóp. Olardyng shet elden ýilenetin jan izdeytin sebebi bar.

Al, bizde, jalghyzbasty analar men otyryp qalghan qyzdar barshylyq. Búl resmy sanaqsyz-aq belgili dýniye. Qyz balanyng bireuge jar bolyp, bala sýng - armany. Sondyqtan, erteng olardy qytaygha túrmysqa shyqpandar dep qansha ýgitte, úrys, aiqayla - týk te shyqpaydy. Talay qazaq qyzynyng olargha qosaq bolyp ketetini anyq. Eng qiyny ol emes, eng qiyny sol qytaylardyng erteng Qazaqstan azamattyghyn alu qúqyna ie bolatyndyghy emes pe? Jәne olar kýieu balasyng dep anau-mynau júmysqa jegip, minip alatyn әlsizder emes, shetinen sen túr - men atayyn, bilimdi, myqty jigitter.

Sondyqtan, bizding qyzdar bir ghana talap qoya alsa kerek, qytay jigitteri islam dinin qabyldauy tiyis. Músylman balasyna ghana túrmysqa shyghamyn desin. Ol qytay balalaryn qazaqqa moyyn búrghyzatyn jalghyz jol osy ghoy deymin? Áytpese, óz ishimizden bólek otau tigip, diaspora qylyp tútastyrmaudyng basqa jolyn kórmey otyrmyn. Osylay dúrys bolmay ma? Basqa joly bar ma?

Serik Janbolat

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