Riza Isaeva. Jaldamaly qúrsaq...
«IYshem surrogatnuIY mati, v horoshih usloviyah»
(«Vakansiya» gazetindegi habarlandyru).
Surrogat ana - yaghny ananyng orynbasary, songhy on bes jylda ghylymnyng perzentke zar otbasylargha jasaghan tartuy dese de bolghanday. Sharanany toghyz ay kóteruge kelisim bergen ananyng qúrsaghyna sәbiyding biologiyalyq ata-anasynyng gametalary engiziledi. Osylaysha әiel nәresteni toghyz ay kóterip ata-anasyna aman esen tabys etui tiyis.
Jalpy әlemde búl әdispen qansha sәby dýniyege kelgeni turaly resmy mәlimet joq, alayda beyresmi saraptamalargha sensek, dýniyejýzinde surrogat ananyng kómegimen 220 mynday sәby tuylypty. Reseyde bes jýzdey sharana ómirge kelse, qazaqstandyq mamandar da surrogat analardyng kómegine jýginetinder sanynyng artyp kele jatqanyn mәlimdegen bolatyn.
Dúrys-aq, balaly ýiding tirshiligi mәndi ekenine dauymyz joq. Degenmen, tayaqtyng ekinshi úshy bar.
Resey zanyna sәikes, 20 men 35 jas aralyghyndaghy deni sau, qúrsaq kótergen tәjiriybesi bar әiel surrogat ana bola alady. Bolashaq sәbiyding zandy ata-anasymen jaldamaly ana óz kelisimderin hat týrinde rәsimdeydi. Al eger, surrogat әiel túrmysta bolsa, onyng joldasy hat arqyly kelisimin berui tiyis.
«IYshem surrogatnuIY mati, v horoshih usloviyah»
(«Vakansiya» gazetindegi habarlandyru).
Surrogat ana - yaghny ananyng orynbasary, songhy on bes jylda ghylymnyng perzentke zar otbasylargha jasaghan tartuy dese de bolghanday. Sharanany toghyz ay kóteruge kelisim bergen ananyng qúrsaghyna sәbiyding biologiyalyq ata-anasynyng gametalary engiziledi. Osylaysha әiel nәresteni toghyz ay kóterip ata-anasyna aman esen tabys etui tiyis.
Jalpy әlemde búl әdispen qansha sәby dýniyege kelgeni turaly resmy mәlimet joq, alayda beyresmi saraptamalargha sensek, dýniyejýzinde surrogat ananyng kómegimen 220 mynday sәby tuylypty. Reseyde bes jýzdey sharana ómirge kelse, qazaqstandyq mamandar da surrogat analardyng kómegine jýginetinder sanynyng artyp kele jatqanyn mәlimdegen bolatyn.
Dúrys-aq, balaly ýiding tirshiligi mәndi ekenine dauymyz joq. Degenmen, tayaqtyng ekinshi úshy bar.
Resey zanyna sәikes, 20 men 35 jas aralyghyndaghy deni sau, qúrsaq kótergen tәjiriybesi bar әiel surrogat ana bola alady. Bolashaq sәbiyding zandy ata-anasymen jaldamaly ana óz kelisimderin hat týrinde rәsimdeydi. Al eger, surrogat әiel túrmysta bolsa, onyng joldasy hat arqyly kelisimin berui tiyis.
Bizding elimizde búl mәsele «Azamattardyng reproduktivti húqyqtary men olardy jýzege asyru kepildikteri» turaly 2004 jyldyng 16 shildesinde jaryq kórgen Zannyng on jetinshi babymen retteledi. Jaldamaly anamen ata -ananyng arasynda jasalatyn kelisim shartqa basa kónil bólgen búl qújatta qúrsaq kóteruge kelisim bergen әielding jasy men otbasylyq jaghdayyna qoyylatyn talaptar naqty anyqtalmaghan.
Mәselening osy jaghy birshama kýmәn tudyrady. Óitkeni býginde Qazaqstanda resmy mәlimetter boyynsha ghana alpys mynday jetimek bar. Olardyng seksen payyzgha juyghy - tiri jetim. Ekinshi sózben aitqanda, әke sheshesining jauapsyzdyghynan balalar ýiinde tәrbiyelenuge mәjbýr. Olardyng arasynda tastandylar da, ata-anasy ishkilikke salynghandar da, óz erkimen balasynan bas tartatqandar da bar.
Onsyz da aqsha ýshin betting aryn belbeuden tómen tastaghan zamanda aqsha tauyp, kýn kóru ýshin, bala tuugha bel buatyn jandar kóbeyse, olardyng arasynda ong jaqta otyrghan boyjetkender jýrse, odan ótken esh masqara bolmasy anyq. Olay deytinimiz - jogharyda aitylghan «Azamattardyng reproduktivti húqyqtary men olardy jýzege asyru kepildikteri» turaly zang syn kótermeydi. Surrogat ananyng otbasylyq jaghdayyna qoyylatyn talap zanda anyq kórsetilmegen. Al, jaldamaly ana, boyyna sәby bitken sәtten bastap, biologiyalyq ata-anadan materialdyq kómek alyp túratynyn eskersek jәne ol azyn-aulaq soma emes ekenine mәn bersek, qarjygha keneluding óte tiyimdi әdisi bolyp tabylmaq. Tipti, onay olja. Tek densaulyghynyz jarap berse bolghany - eng bastysy sәbiyding bolashaghyn, onyng qúrsaqtaghy ruhany tynysyn oilaudyng týkke qajeti joq. Naghyz jauapsyzgha arnalghan tabys kózi.
Búl az deseniz, eger dýniyege kelgen sharana ózderine únamay jatsa, biologiyalyq ata-ananyng da sәbiyden bas tartugha qaqysy bar. Búl jaghdayda ony dýniyege әkelgen әiel nәrestening anasy bolyp moyyndalady. Biraq, tek aqsha ýshin ana bolugha kelisken jan beykýnә sәbiydi bauyryna basuy eki talay. Sonda surrogat nәtiyjesinde tuylghan balanyng da sәbiyler ýiin jaghalamasyna esh kepildik joq.
Al, diny túrghydan qaraghanda, islam dininde de, hristian dininde de surrogat ana bolu maqúldanbaydy. Islamda ol, keybir diny sarapshylardyng pikirinshe, әielding arynan attauy, yaghny kýnә jasauymen teng bolyp esepteledi. Búghan qosa qúrsaqty jalgha alu arqyly Jaratylystyng әiel men er adamgha bergen zipa qasiyetin tútynu qúraly etip arzandatumen ten. Sondyqtan, músylman elderining kópshiliginde derlik oghan rúqsat joq. Tipti, Avstriya, Norvegiya, Shvesiya, Fransiya jәne Amerikanyng birqatar shtattarynda, Italiya, Shveysariya, Germaniya siyaqty Europa elderinde de oghan tiym salynghan. Italiya, Fransiya, Germaniya siyaqty elderde búl tiymdy búzghandargha iri kólemde aiyppúl salynyp, tipti týrmege jabu da kózdelgen.
Avstraliya, Úlybritaniya, Daniya, Italiya, Izraili, Ispaniya, Kanada, Niyderlandy jәne Amerikanyng birqatar shtattary әiel jatyryn jalgha berudi rúqsat etkenimen surrogat anagha aqy tólenbeydi. Yaghni, ana bolatyn jan «tegin qyzmet kórsetuge» kelisim berui tiyis. Al, Izrailide surrogat ananyng qyzmetin qoldanu ýshin әleumettik qyzmetkerler, dәrigerler men din ókilderinen túratyn arnayy komissiyanyng maqúldauy qajet.
Japondyq giynekologiya jәne akusherlik assosiasiyasy búl әdisti qoldanu dúrys emes dep esepteydi.
Surrogat ana boludy tabys kózi retinde zanmen rettegen elder qatarynda Amerikanyng birqatar shtattary, Ontýstik Afrika respublikasy, Resey Federasiyasy, Gruziya, Ukraina, Belorussiya jәne Qazaqstan bar.