Qazaq aruynyng ar-namysy ghalamtormen ólshenbeydi...
Býgingining qyzdary qaltaly, zәulim ýii, astynda qymbat kóligi bar jigitterge әues deymiz. "Temeki tartyp, ishimdik ishedi" dep qyzdardy ghalamtor jelisine jarysa jazyp, suretterin, beynerolikterin salugha qúmarmyz. Sol beynerolikter arqyly býkil qazaq halqynyng ar-namysyna tiyip otyrghan joqpyz ba?
Áleumettik jelilerdegi qazaq qyzdary turaly bergen jaghymsyz aqparattardy oqyp, syrt kóz qazaqty búzylghan, teksiz halyq dep aitpasyna kim kepildik beredi? Qazaq qyzdarynyng birining boyynan jamanshylyq kórse, últymyzdyng kózi ashyq, kókiregi oyau azamattary jerden jeti qoyan tapqanday býkil qazaq arularyna topyraq shashady. Qyz basqa planetadan kelgen joq. Ol sening anan, qaryndasyn, sening apayyn, qyzyng ghoy...
Egerde qazaqtyng azamattary sheshen halqynyng jigitteri siyaqty óz últynyng qyzdaryn qaryndasym dep ardaq tútyp, basqadan qorghap, tirek bolsa, eshqanday qazaq qyzy basqanyng jeteginde ketpes edi.
Qazaq jigitterining jyldan-jylgha úsaqtalyp bara jatqanyn bayqaymyz. Kerisinshe qazaq arulary qay salada bolmasyn óz belsendilikterimen kózge týsip jýr. Azamattyng ornyn basyp, býkil bir otbasyn ózi baghyp jýrgenin talay qazaq әielining jankeshti tirligin kýndelikti ómirden kórip, estip jýrmiz ghoy.
Sonymen qatar, әrbir qazaq jigitine 3-4 qyz keledi degen jalghan aqparat elimizdegi demografiyalyq ýrdiske aitarlyqtay óz ziyanyn tiygizip otyr. Jigitterimiz osy sózdi maldanyp, 30-40 jasqa deyin salt bas, sabau qamshy jýrip, ózderinin qalay sýrboydaq bolyp qalghanyn bayqamay qalady.
Býgingi naryq zamanynda mansap, baspana, әleumettik mәseleler jastardyn uaqytyly ýilenuine qol baylau bolyp otyrghany barshamyzgha ayan. Qazirgi kezende elimizde 400 mynnan astam kәriqyz bar degen derekter aitylyp jýr. Al qansha sýrboydaq baryn eshkim dәl basyp aita almaydy... Meninshe elimizde demografiyalyq tepe-tendik búzylghan.
Býkil qogham, ýkimet bolyp týiini sheshilmegen osy týitkil mәselelerding sheshimin tabuymyz kerek. Ghalymdarymyz osy aitylghan mәselelerdi zertteuge óz ýlesterin qossa núr ýstine núr bolar edi. Ókinishke oray, belgili demograf ghalym Maqash Tәtimovtan keyin osy salany jete zerttep jýrgen otandyq ghalymdardy kóre almay otyrmyz.
«Bir qaryn maydy bir qúmalaq shiritedi»,- degendey bir qyzdyng boyynan kóringen әdepsizdik tek qazaq qyzdarynyng emes últtyng namysy tiyetin әreket. Yaghny biz ghasyrlar boyy kele jatqan últtyq tәrbiyemizden qol ýzip, úrpaq tәrbiyesin qoldan shygharyp aldyq. Qazaq qyzdaryna jan-jaqtan tas atyp, jamanday bergenshe, osy baghyttan jiberip alghan kemshil tústarymyzdy týgendeyik, aghayyn!
Qúrmetti, oqyrman meninshe qazaq qyzynyng ólshemi internetpen ólshenbeydi, onyng ar-namysymen ólshenedi. Al qazaq qyzynyng tәrbiyesi - ol bizdin últtyq ar-namysymyzdyng ólshemi.
Erkejan Dosmúhambet, Semey qalasyndaghy Shәkәrim atyndaghy memlekettik uniyversiytetinin jurnalistika fakulitetinin 1 kurs studenti
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