Qyz úzatuda, kóp adam "Qyzym, barghan jerine tastay batyp, suday sin!" deydi. Alayda, 70% qyzdar barghan jerinde sinbek týgil, kýieuin tolyqtay izolyasiyagha kirgizedi. Bir pysyqtar óz otbasynyng budjetinen tórkinine tasidy, bir pysyqtar óz tuysy kelgende qúshaq jayyp qarsy alsa, kýieuining tuysqanynyng tezirek ketkenin tilep otyrady, al bir pysyqtar kýieuining ata-anasymen birge túrghysy kelmey, bólek shyghugha tyrysady.

Qyzdar barghan jerine tolyqtay sinip, "osy әuletti kógertemin, osy әuletting maqtanyshy bolamyn" degen oimen barmasa, qalghan arzan is-qimyldyng barlyghy bos sóz.