Qúrmetti bauyrlar, órkeniyetti elder qataryna qosyludyng kilti - ata-baba dәstýrine berik bolu ekenin úghynatyn kez keldi!
Qazaq tәnirshil bolghan kezinde de, músylmandyqty qabyldaghan song da eng aldymen ata-baba aruaghyna sengen jәne siynghan.
"Aruaghyn syilamaghan, aruaqtan qoryqpaghan adam - qúdaydan da qoryqpaydy" degen úghym sodan qalyptasqan.
Jaugha shapqanda da ata-babalarymyz "allaqakbar" dep emes "Aruaq" dep shapqan.
Ata-baba aruaqtaryna siynyp ólimge qarsy túryp, az ghana qolmen san jaghynan 10-15 ese asyp týsetin jaudy jenip otyrghan.
Aruaqqa siynghannyng arqasynda keng baytaq jerdi saqtap qalghan.
Aruaqqa siynghan qazaq balasy eshqashan satqyndyqqa, aramdyqqa barmaghan, namysshyl jәne adal bolghan, óz últynyng mýddesin bәrinen joghary qoyghan!
"Qayda bolsanda ata-babannyng aruaqtary jelep-jebep jýrsin"-dep bata berip balalaryn,  bauyrlaryn nemese bir-birin ruhtandyrghan.
Ata-babalarymyzdan jalghasyp kele jatqan dәstýrimizdi ústansaq, eshqashan azghyndyq jolyna týspeytinimiz anyq!
Sebebi, ata-babasynyng aruaghyn qasterlegen qazaq balasy, ata-babasynyng atyna qarghys keltiruden qoryqqan. Aruaqqa qúran baghyshtap oqyghan jәne oqyp jýr.
Aruaqqa degen qúrmet qana azghyndyqqa jibermegen.
Aruaqty úmytpau, syilau bizdi qayyrymdylyqqa, jaqsylyqqa, bilimdi bolugha, izgi-niyetke, adamgershilik qasiyetti joghaltpaugha, elimizdi sýiyge jәne ony qorghaugha úmtyldyrady.
Auyzbirshilikke úmtyldyratyn da osy ata-baba dәstýri ekenin eskergenimiz óte manyzdy!

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