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Suisidti azaytudyng basty sheshimi - halyqtyng jaghdayyn kóteru

Qazaqstan suisidten kósh bastady deydi. OA elderi arasynda. Áriyne, súmdyq jaghday. Suisidting basty sebebi nede?

Tabighatta burunduktar men tiyinder suisid jasaytyny kezdesedi. Ne ýshin deysiz be? Qos kemirgish jaz boyy janghaq terip, ony qysqa saqtaydy. Al jauyz adamdar olardyng bar jighan-tergenin kýzde kelip, alyp ketedi. Búny kórgen burunduktar men tiyinder qysta jeytin azyq tappaytynyn jәne balalaryn asyray almaytynyn sezip, aghash qabyghyna yaky shópke, jinishke mayysqaq bútaqqa asylyp óledi-mis. Súmdyq iyә. Jauyz adamdar-ay.

Biraq sol jauyz adamdar ang bitkendi qoyyp, adamdy da qyryp jatyr. Qarapayym halyqtyng keyde tiyin men burunduktan aiyrmashylyghy shamaly. Ózine tiyesili ýlesi bir arsyz jegishting qaltasynda, yaky toyymsyz ashkóz paraqordyng әmiyanynda ketip jatady. Búl әdiletsizdikke shydamaghan key jandar, tiyin men burunduktyng jolyn qaytalaydy.

Áriyne, suisidting sebebi óte kóp. Psihologiyalyq auytqu, ishki emosiyany tejey almau jәne t.b. Alayda, mening oiymsha basty sebepterding biri ol әleumettik jaghday.

Baspananyng bolmauy, bala-shaghany dúrys kiyindirip, qajettiligimen jýz payyz qamtamasyz ete almau, ertengi kýnge degen senimsizdik pen ýsti-ýstine qosylghan qaryzdar men nesiyeler, ay sayyn kelip túratyn salyqtar, pәter aqysy, oqu aqysy, bir kirgen qarjylyq qiyndyqtyng torynan shygha almau - osynyng bәri adamdardy týrli oigha jeteleydi. Biri qylmysqa barady, endi biri osy mәselelerding bәrinen ózine qol júmsap qútylmaq bolady. Keyde adamdar tyghyryqtan shyghudyng jalghyz joly qyl arqan, biyik ghimarat, qúty toly dәri ne kesilgen tamyr dep oilaydy. Ayanyshty әriyne...

Búl jaghdaydy retteuding joly "din arqyly uaghyz aitu kerek, jan degen amanat, oghan qiyanat jasamau lazym" degen pikir aitylyp jatyr. Kelisemin, biraq ony sheshim sanamaymyn. Suisidti azaytudyng basty sheshimi halyqtyng jaghdayyn kóteru dep oilaymyn. Ol suisidti joyyp jibermeydi, biraq aitarlyqtay tómendetedi.

2008 jylghy daghdarystan keyin, biraz kәsipkerding ózderine qol júmsaghanyn oqyp edim. Olardyng keybiri "Ói, djippen jýrgen Mәkeng taksiymen jýrip qapty", "Ananyng biznesi kýiip ketipti", "Mynau bankrot bopty" degen ózara baqtalastyqta aitylatyn ponttyq egodan tuyndaytyn әngimege shydamay qol júmsapty. Olar baylardyng suisiydi.

Al endi ailyghy bir aptagha әreng jetetin qarapayym halyqtyng qanday psihologiyalyq kýide jýrgenin oilay beriniz. Onyng psihologiyasyn qoghamdaghy әdiletsizdik tómpeshtep jatqany taghy bar.

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