Adamzat óz ómirinde eki nәrsege tandau jasay almaydy jәne sol eki nәrse adam taghdyryn, bolashaghyn qúrudaghy manyzdy faktorlar bolyp tabylady. Ol – Otan men ata-ana. Eger sen kózi ashyq, enbekqor, meyirimdi, adamgershiligi mol «jaqsy ata-anadan» tuylsang – sening jolynnyng bolghany. «Jaqsy ata-ana» sóztirkesining ishine ata-analar arasyndaghy syilastyq pen mahabbat sezimining jogharghy dengeyde boluy da kiredi.

Bizding jolymyz boldy, sebebi biz dәl osynday janúyada dýnie esigin ashtyq. 2016 jyldyng 20-shy qantarda anamyz Ydyrysova Hanshayym Ydyrysqyzy 90 jasqa tolady. Býginde jetken jetistikterimiz tek ata-anamyzdyng bizge ayanbay bergen bilimi men tәrbiyesining arqasynda, atap aitsaq – ómirlik qaghidalar, negizgi adamy qasiyetter, ómirge degen kózqarasymyzdy qalyptastyruda qosqan ýlken enbekteri. Ómir jolymyzdaghy balalyq shaqqa sayahat jasaghanymyzda ata-anamyzdyng bizge degen mahabbaty men qamqorlyghy, alghashqy balalyq is-әreketterimiz ben kónildi balalyq shaghymyzdy jylulyq sezimmen saghyna eske alamyz.

Anamyzdyng ómir joly soghysqa deyingi jyldarda tuylghan adamdardyng taghdyryna úqsas. Tózimdilik pen qiynshylyqtyng bir ýlesi anama da tiygen.

Anamyz 1926 jyldyng 20-qantarynda Almaty oblysy, Jambyl audany, Qara-Qastek auylynda dýniyege kelgen. 1930 jyly Anamyzdyng әkesi, yaghny atamyz Ydyrys óz erkimen maly men mýligin kolhozgha tapsyryp, apamyz ben 4 jasar kishkentay qyzy Hanshayymdy arbagha salyp alyp Jәlalabad qalasyna alyp ketken eken. Búl olardy 30-jyldardaghy asharshylyqtan saqtap qaldy. Atamyz Ydyrys óte sauatty bolghandyqtan jәne arabsha jazudy týsine bilgendikten Jәlalabad qalasynda qújattar men anyqtamalardy beretin mekemede júmys istegen. Óz júmys ornynda ol kóptegen jerlesterine kómektesken. Al apamyz – Ayman apa balalar internatynda aspaz bolyp júmys jasaghan eken. Sol qalada anamyz ózbek tilde oqytatyn mektepke barghan. 1937-jyly barlyghy Almaty qalasyna qayta oralyp, anamyz 12-mektepte oquyn jalghastyrghan.

Soghys jyldary Sovet Odaghynyng halqyna da anamyzdyng janúyasyna da jana bir qiyn synaq bolyp tiydi. Soghys anamyzdyng janúyasy ýshin ýlken tragediyagha boly, sebebi Ydyrys atamyz «halyq jauyna» ainaldy. Ol bylay bolghan. Soghys jyldary auyldyng brigadiyri bolghan Ydyrys ata elevatormen soghys alanyna dәn tasyghan. Auyldastary, kóbine әielder, bir qulyq oilap tabady. Ýilerindegi ash balalaryna dәn tasu ýshin qaptyng búryshtaryn qysyp, dәndi azyraq salady da, sol az da bolsa artylghan dәndi ýilerine tasyidy. Búny kórgen Ydyrys ata balalardy oilap búnday is-әreketke kóz júma qaraydy. Alayda bireuler búny organdargha bayandap bergendikten, Ydyrys atagha «halyq jauy» dep kinә taghylyp, ony týrmege alyp ketedi. Atamyzdyng týrme qabyrghasynda qaytys bolghany, ne atu jazasyna úshyraghany bizge býgingi kýnge deyin beymәlim. Jerlengen jerin de bilmeymiz.

Ózining әkesinen aiyrylghan anamyz, mektepti bitirmesten júmys isteuge bel buyp, Qara-Qastek auylynyng әkimshiligine hatshy bolyp júmysqa túrady. Oqu men bilimge degen talpynysynyng arqasynda KazPIY-ding kursyn bitirip, orta bilimi bar degen attestat alady. Búnymen toqtamay júmys pen oqudy qatar alyp jýruge mәjbýr bolghandyqtan instituttyng syrttay oqu bólimine, naqtyraq aitsaq qyzdargha qiyn mamandyqqa – fizika-matematika bólimine týsedi.

Anamyz 1946 jyly әkemiz Absametov Qúdys Absametúlyn kezdestiredi. Artilleriyalyq batalionynyng komandiyri bolghan, tipti sonau Berlinge deyin barghan, ÚOS-ng birinshi kýninen sonyna deyin kórgen qiynshylyqtaryna tóze bilgen, kóptegen soghys marapattary bar Ákemiz jas qyzdyng jýregin jaulay almauy mýmkin emes edi.  Maratapttaryn atap aitsaq: Qyzyl júldyz ordeni, Varshava jәne Berldindi alghany ýshin medali, Jenis medali.

Soghystyng qiyn da auyr kýnderinen keyin anamyz әkemiz ýshin, al әkesinen aiyrylghan anamyz ýshin әkemiz anamyz ýshin senimdi jar, qoldau kórsetetin ardaqty jan boldy. Qiyndyqty kóp kórgen ekeui bir-birine tireu bola bildi jәne syilastyq pen mahabbat sezimin joghary baghalaghan jandar boldy.

Anamyzdyng arqasynda әkemiz júmysynda jogharghy belesterdi baghyndyra bildi, enbek jolynda da jeniske jetti. Ákemiz mektep diyrektory bolyp qyzmet etip jýrgende mektebimiz eng ýlgili mektep bolatyn. 1978 jyly әkimizding enbegi sosialistik enbek Eri ataghyn, Lenin Ordeni men Altyn Júldyz ordenin tabystau arqyly joghary baghalady. Enbegining búl jetistikteri tek әkemizding ghana emes, sonday aq anamyzdyng da arqasy, sebebi anamyz әkemizdi ýidegi sharualyrdan bosatty. Bar uaqytyn mektepke júmsady, sonymen qatar әkemiz memleket, oblys, audan, auyl ómirinde de ýlken belsendilik tanytty. Fabrichnyy auylynyng túrghyndary kýni býginge deyin rizashylyqpen әkemizdi esterine alyp otyrady, sebebi әkemizding yqpal etuimen Fabrichnyy auyldyq mekendegi 5 mektep pen múghalimderge arnalghan 70 sharshy metrlik túrghyn ýy soghyldy. Qazirgi tanda әkemiz kóp jyldar qyzmet etken mektep Qarghalydaghy №1-orta mektepting aty әkemizding qúrmetine qoyylghan.

Áke-sheshemiz úzaq әri baqytty janúyalyq ghúmyr keshken. Alayda әkemiz býginde aramyzda joq. Ómirden ótkenine 9 jylday boldy. Biz ol kisini qashanda maqtan tútamyz. Tek sol kisining bizge dúrys ómirlik baghyt kórsetuining arqasynda jәne bizdi óz Otanynyng berik azamattary retinde tәrbiyelegenining arqasynda ghana biz býginde osy halge jettik. Biz aitqandy istep emes, әke-sheshemizding istegenin kórip tәrbiyelendik. Adal enbek etu, jaqyndargha qol úshyn beru, adamgeshilikpen, abyroymen is-әreket etu, jauapkershilik pen shyndyqqa ýiretti.

Anamyz ýidegi әieldik qyzmetin ýlken jauapkershilikpen oryndaytyn. Baqytty janúyada 4 nәresteni dýniyege әkeldi. Mekteptegi múghalim mamandyghy qanshalyqty qiyn bolsa da, júmysyn eshqashan tastaghan emes. Mektepte múghalimderding jetispeuinen kýni boyy júmysta, al týnderi ýide oqushylardyng dәpterin tekserumen ótetin.

Oqushylar men әriptesterining sózderine qaraghanda anamyz talaby qatal múghalim, sonymen qatar óte adal әri әdiletti jan bolghan eken. Óz qyzmetindegi jauapkershiligining joghary dengeyin onyng enbek jolyndaghy Jenis medali, Qazaq KSR-nyng halyq Ýzdigi atty ataghy jәne eng bastysy – ýlken jetistikterge jetken onyng shәkirtteri dәleldeydi. Olardyng ishinde ministrler de, general, akademikter de, professorlar men iri kәsipkerler de, maqtaugha túrarlyq azamattar da bar.

Júmysynan bólek janúyalyq ómirdi qatar alyp jýrgen. Ýiimizde Aymen apa men Kaysha apadan basqa kóp tuysqandarymyz bizben birge túrdy. Olardyng biri mektepte oqu ýshin kelse, endi biri júmys babymen kelip jatty. Eng bastysy – anamyzdyng ýlken jýregining arqasynda barlyghy bir ýiding balasynday tatu tәtti túrdy. Qazirgi tanda da bizding janúyamyz óte úiymshyl ýlken janúya. Anamyzdy balalary ghana emes, nemere-shóbereleri qorshap alady. Bilimge úmtylu janúyamyzdaghy úrpaqtan úrpaqqa berilip kele jatqan qúndylyghymyz. Bizding balalarymyz da ata-apasy siyaqty óz bilimderin ýnemi jogharlatudy әdetke ainaldyrghan. Apamyzdyng nemereleri óz Otanyna adal enbek etu, elin damytu ýshin býginde әlemning eng ýzdik oqu oryndarynda oquda. Bizding әke-sheshemizding bizge ýiretkeni boyynsha óz balalarymyzgha da tek kózi ashyq, bilimdi halyq qana óz memleketin ósire alady degendi aityp ósirdik.

Biz ýshin ana jýregining soghysy – sheksiz mahabbat búlaghy. Ózimiz aq shashty ata men apa bolsaq ta anamyzdyng jýregin sezu men qúshaghyna bólenu taghdyrymyzdyng ýlken, bagha jetpes syiy bolyp tabylady. Árbir atqan tanymyz ýshin, meyirimiz ben mahabbatynyz ýshin, ýlken jýreginizding jylulyghy ýshin, bizge ómir syilaghanynyz ýshin Sizding aldynyzda basymyzdy iyemiz!

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