Elimizde 400 myng etnikalyq qytay azamaty túryp jatqanyn ótkende jariya etken bolatynbyz (http://abai.kz/post/49264) . Olardyng qatary qazir qatyn balasymen ósip, ónip jatqany da ras bolsa kerek. Alayda, últy hanzu әri Qytay Halyq Respublikasynyng (QHR) azamatynan tughan balalardyng sany turaly statistika joqqa tәn. Onyng ýstine, Qazaqstandaghy qytaylar qazaq әielinen tughan úly men qyzyna qazaq esimin berip, olardyng qazaq azamaty atanuyna  qarsy emes. Mysaly, qytay  jigitimen dәm-túzy jarasqan Ayjan Rayymbekova balalaryna Arsylan jәne Temirlan dep at qoyypty. Qytaylyq otbasygha kelin bolyp týsken Ayjan qazaq ortasynyng hanzulyqtargha túrmysqa shyqqan qazaq qyzynyng qadamyn qúptamaytyndyghyn bek jaqsy biletin kórinedi. Áytse de, onyng ata-anasy qytay kýieudi qúshaq jaya qarsy alyp, jaqsy kórip ketkenge úqsaydy.

«Mening ata-anam kýieu balasyn qúshaq jaya qarsy aldy. Olargha mening kýieuim bizding mentaliytetke ashyqtyghymen, adaldyghymen jәne adamgershiligimen únap qaldy», - deydi Ayjan Rayymbekova. Ayjannyng osylay dep aghynan aqtarylghanyn Nur.kz sayty «Siz bilmeytin qyzyqtar» aidarymen aiqaylatyp berip otyr. Ayjannyng balalary Qazaqstan azamaty. «Balalarym qytaysha, oryssha, aghylshynsha biledi. Auyzeki qazaqshany týsinedi», - deydi qytay kelini.

Qytay kelini ýshin Aspan astyndaghy el ekinshi ýiine ainalghan.

«Qazaqstan men Qytaydyng qaysysynda túrghan dúrys dep súrasanyz, men birjaqty jauap bere almas edim. Qytayda bes jylgha juyq ómir sýrgen adam retinde aitarym, ol mening ekinshi ýiime ainaldy. Qytaydyng mәdeniyeti, tarihy, infraqúrylymnyng damyghandyghy maghan qatty únady. Qazaqstan mening otanym bolyp mәngi qalatyny sózsiz. Qayda jýrsem de Ile Alatauynyng saf auasyn ansap jýremin. Tughandarymnyng toyyna baryp, Alakólde shomyludy jaqsy kóremin», - deydi Ayjan qyz (keshiriniz, búrynghy qyz).

Qazaqstandaghy kópúlttylyq iydeyasynyng qúshaghynda ósken Ayjan Rayymbekova kýieuining de kópúltty ortada óskenin maqtanysh ete kele qytay otbasyna kelin boludyng qiyn emestigin aityp qiylady.

«Qytaygha kelin bolu men ýshin qiyn emes. Men ózimdi otbasynyng kenjesi sezinemin. Óz kezeginde, men kýieuimning ata-anasyn qúrmetteymin. Olargha úlyna bergen tәrbiyesi ýshin alghys aitamyn", - deydi ol.

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Hanzu qarttaryna qamqorlyq QHR-da osylay jasalady.

Iliyas Aqbay

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