Ásire toyshyldyq jaqsy emes. Maqtan ýshin shashylu berisi - obal, arysy - daraqylyq. Kim asyp týsedi dep jarysqa týsu odan da soraqy әdet. Búdan tyiylu kerek.

Desek te toygha, asqa shýilige beruge bolmaydy. Ol - qazaqtyng ghasyrlar boyy saqtap kele jatqan salt- dәstýri. Toy aghayyndy jaqyndatady. Jana ýilengen jastar elding batasyn alyp, el qataryna qosylady. Bir-birin tanymaytyn qúdandaly eki jaq toy ýstinde bir- birine syi-siyapat jasap, kónilderi jarasady. Toydy jaqsy jasasa ol balalaryna, qúdalaryna, jinalghan elge degen qúrmet. Toy jasap eki jas aldymen Allanyn, ata- ananyn, aghayynnyng aldynda jauapkershilik alady. Ghasyrlar boyy solay bolyp keldi, bola beredi de. Qazaq - sonysymen qazaq.

Búghan deyin qazaqtyng saltymen kisisi qaytys bolghan adamnyng qonaqasy berui men jetisin, qyrqyn, jylyn ótkizuge tiyisip edik. Ol da qazaqtyng tól salt - dәstýri. Qazaq qoly ashyq, qonaqjay, namysshyl halyq. Jighan tergenin ýilengen balasyna nemese ólgen әke sheshesine qimay otyratyn el ýlgi me sonda? Álde búl tartys eshkimge aitpay qosylyp alatyn azamattyq neke men óligin órtey salatyn krimatoryyge kóshuge bastap bara ma? Onyng ar jaghynda teksizdik túr...

Toy jasasa da, ólim jitimin atqaryp as berse de Ýkimetting qaltasyna týsip jatqan qazaq joq. Óz qaltasynan shygharady. Namysy ýshin. Ol namys ta qazaqtyng sýiegine singen últtyq namys. " Toy qúdaydyng qazynasy" degende qazaqtyng Qúdaydyng bergen baylyghyn jaqsylyghyna júmsaytyn jomart niyetin aitady. Eger jaqsylap toy jasamasa, ólimin atqarmasa sýiegine tanba bolady. Sondyqtan birese dindi, birese әleumettik - túrmystyq ahualdy betke ústap, qazaqtyng ghasyrlar boyy kele jatqan salt- dәstýrine tiyise bermeyikshi. Júlmalay bersek týbi qazaqtyghymyzdan dym da qalmauy mýmkin. Al óz saltynan aiyrylghan halyq ol - últtyq bet beynesin joghaltqan halyq. Ol týbi tilin, dinin joghaltyp, kýshtige sinip joq bolady.

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