Sәlem salu - kelinning shýkirshiligi
Sәlem salu dúrys pa dep súraydy keybir inilerimiz. IYә, rasymen de bireuler "búl Allagha serik qosu, búl shirk" dep baybalam salyp jatady. Búl shynymen solay ma? Mening jeke pikirim mynanday: Biz arab emespiz, biz qazaqpyz! Ýlkenderge sәlem saludyng sharighatqa esh qayshylyghy joq! Kelin týsken jerinde kýieuining ata-anasyna, jalpy ýlkenderine iyilip sәlem salsa eshkimning imany búzylmaydy. Jýreginde Allasy túrghan song Allanyng qaharyn tughyzbaydy. Búl qayta ózara syilastyqty, qúrmetti arttyrady. Búl ónege, búl tәrbiye! Kelin ózi sәlem salyp túrghan enesining betinen almaydy. Ata-enesine qarsy shyqpaydy. Sәlem salu - kelinning Alla aldyndaghy shýkirshiligi, amandasuy! Amandasu - islam әdebining basty sharttarynyng biri.
Qúran Kәrimde: «Ey adamdar, rasynda Biz senderdi er kisi men әielden jarattyq. Sonday‑aq, bir‑birlerinmen tanysularyng ýshin senderdi halyqtar jәne taypalar etip tarattyq. Shyn mәninde Allanyng qúzyrynda eng qúrmettilering - kóbirek taqualy bolghandaryn» (1, 49:13) ‑ deydi emes pe?!. Arabtardyng әielderine qara kiyim kiygizip, túmshalap tastauy sharighat talaby emes ózderining últtyq erekshelikteri. Ayaqtaryna shәrkey ilui bizge ónege emes. Arqanyng 30-40 gradus ayazyna ol jaramaydy. Arabtyng ayaghymen dastarhan basyp túratyn әdet-ghúrpyn (qajylyqta jýrgende óz kózimmen kórdim) bizge kóshiruding esh qajeti joq. Sondyqtan әr últ ózining tilin, әdet-ghúrpyn saqtauy kerek.
Qazaqta ras, shamanizm kezinen qalghan әruaqqa syiynudyng sarqynshaghy bar. Biraq imandylyqtyng artuymen ol da qalyp keledi. Asyl dinimizding jolynda Allanyng barlyghyn, birligin, haqtyghyn taniyq, Payghambarymyzgha (s.gh.s) salauatymyzdy aitayyq, bes paryzymyzdy oryndayyq. Eng bastysy sol! Basqalay esh aghymnyn, esh sektanyng qajeti joq. Sondyqtan uahabshylar aitty eken dep dәstýrimizden ajyrap qalmayyq!
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