Batagha qatysty óz oiym:

Qazaq batagha erekshe mәn beredi. Búl jaqsy dәstýr.

Astarynda - aruaqty razy etu, tirshilikke jaqsylyq tileu, úrpaqqa jol kórsetu jәne t.t. izgi niyet jatady.

Bata  - taza kónilden shyghuy tiyis. Sonysymen ol shynayy.

Biraq, onyng әr jaghdaygha baylanysty beriletin týri bar ekenin eskeru kerek.

Úly toygha Úly bata beriledi.

Ol - Eldik mәseleni qamtidy.

Orta toygha - ortagha qatysty bata beriledi. Ol - osy әuletke, jiyngha qatysushylardy qamtidy.

Al, kýndelikti dastarhanda beriletin bata - qysqa-núsqa berilui tiyis.

Biz bolsaq, әrbir dastarhangha bata bergende, neghúrlym úzaq aitsaq, әdemilep aitsaq dep tyrysamyz.

Búl dúrys emes.

Ol jaghdayda - bata tek "bata ýshin" aitylghan bolyp shyghady.

Búl, yaghni, "әdemi bata berdi" dep kózge týsip, maqtanyshqa bólenu ýshin degendey oy qaldyrady.

Sebebi, әrbir syily qonaqtyn, aqsaqaldyng qiynynan qiystyryp, jyraularsha tolghap bata beruge qabileti jete bermeydi.

Sondyqtan býginde jasy ýlken kisilerding ózi qazir bata beruden qashqaqtaytyn boldy.

"Sen ber, men ber" dep, bata berudi dopsha dóngeletetin jaghdaygha jettik.

Olay bolsa, biz kýndelikti batany kóp sózben sozbay, úiqastyryp әrleymin dep әure bolmay - ózinning shyn tileuindi aitugha den qoyghanymyz abzal.

Mysaly, ýlken-kishili dastarhanda "batany jaqsy beredi" dep, jasy kishilerge jol beremiz, keyde.

Negizi, onda eng ýlken qariya beru kerek edi.

Sondyqtan, osylay bolmas ýshin, METAEPISTEMA tobymyz "Dastarhan batasy" standarttaryn jasasa - artyq bolmas edi...

Ol - batanyng óte qysqa, biraq, adresti boluyn qamtamasyz etetindey bolghany jón be deymin...

Sonda ghana, qariyalar bata beruden qashpaytyn bolady...

Ábdirashit Bәkirúly, filosof

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