Janar BAYSEMIZOVA, telejurnalist: Olar meyirimge, jylylyqqa, mahabbatqa zәru
– ...Úzaq әngime! Búl mening oiymda, jýregimde bir ay nemese bir jyl emes, jurnalistikagha aralasa bastaghannan beri jýrgen taqyryp. Kishkentay kezimnen-aq teledidardan kórgen jetim balalardy óskende asyrap alamyn, ata-anasyz qalghan býldirshinge qamqor bolamyn degen týsinik kókeyimde jýretin. Jii aitatynmyn da. Mýmkin perishte auzyma salghan shyghar, әli bala asyrap ala almasam da, osy mәselege aralasu mandaygha jazylypty. Kezinde qazaq tili, din, dil, últ problemalarymen qosa aitylatyn, talqylanatyn mәsele edi búl. 2000 jyldardyng basynan bastap deputattar qazaqstandyq jetim balalardyng tughan elden jyraqqa ketuine alandaushylyq tanytyp, tyiym salu, toqtatu keregin kóp aityp jýrdi. «Shetelge ketken qazaq balalary», «sheteldikterding qazaq balalaryn asyrap aluyna jol berilmeui kerek» degen sózderdi jii estiytinbiz. Búqaralyq aqparat qúraldarynda elimizdegi balalar ýilerining tәrbiyelenushileri jayynda údayy maqala jazylyp, beynematerialdar kóp kórsetiletin. Alayda shetelge ketken býldirshinderding ómirinen habar berilmedi, «qansha qarakóz qúrlyq asty, qay memlekette qansha bala bar?!» degen súraqtargha tek dýdәmal, naqty emes sandar aityldy. Jurnalist retinde әleumettik problemalarmen qatar basqa salagha qatysty týitkildi taqyryptar boyynsha beynesujetter jasap jýrdim. Jurnalist kez kelgen taqyrypty alyp ketetin jan-jaqty maman boluy kerek desek te, әrkimning ózindik missiyasy bolady eken. Búl taqyrypty kóteru maghan jurnalist retinde búiyrghan baq, mindet, paryz dep bilemin. Qazir osy jobamen «auyryp» jýrmin desem de bolady. 2009 jyly Amerikagha attanar kezde dosym, әriptesim maghan: «Janar, búl sening missiyan» dep edi. Alayda men sol kezde búl sózding maghynasyn sonshalyqty tereng týsingen joqpyn. Oiymdy jýzege asyrugha eng alghash «Habar» agenttigining Bas produseri bol-ghan Serik Abas-shah mýmkindik berdi. Taqyrypty qoldaghan «Habar» agenttigi-ning sol kezdegi basshysy Gýlnәr Mústahiymqyzyna alghysym sheksiz. Osylaysha múhit asqan qazaq balalary turaly qazaq televiziyasyndaghy túnghysh arnayy reportaj týsirilip, efirde kórsetildi. Búdan keyin «Almaty» telearnasyndaghy qyzmet barysynda búl taqyryp arna diyrektorynyng birinshi orynbasary bolghan Serik Sarybaevtyng qoldauyna ie bolyp, beligiyalyqtar asyrap alghan qazaq balalary turaly arnayy reportaj әzirledim. Maghan senim artqan, kezinde televiziyanyng ne ekenin úghyndyrghan, naghyz jurnalisting «qasqyr» bolu kerektigin sanama qúighan Serik Sarybaev júmysymdy joghary baghalady. Biraq men bir ghana baghdarlamamen toqtaghym kelmedi. Ýnemi jalghastyrudy oilap jýrdim, basshylyq qyzmetke aralasqanda da búl oy maghan maza bergen joq. Búl – pafos emes, aqiqat. Osylaysha aragha jyldar salyp, túnghysh ret seriyalyq reportaj esebinde «Qazaqstan» Últtyq telearnasynda «Sheteldegi qazaq balalary» jobasy jaryq kórdi. Halyqaralyq dengeydegi iri joba «Qazaqstan» RTRK AQ basqarma tórayymy Núrjan Múhamedjanovanyng tikeley qoldauymen, qamqorlyghymen jýzege asty. Últtyq arna diyrektory Iliyas Ysqaqovqa da alghysym sheksiz. Bir emes, birneshe elden baghdarlama týsiru, shetelde týsirilim júmystaryn úiymdastyru onay sharua emes. Búl baghytta Syrtqy ister ministrliginin, Konsuldyq qyzmet departamentinin, Qazaqstannyng shet memlekettegi elshilikterining qyzmeti úshan-teniz, kómegi orasan. «Sheteldegi qazaq balalary» jobasy – Últtyq arna men Syrtqy ister ministrligining birigip kýsh salghan tuyndysy. Elimizde túnghysh ret qolgha alynghan jobanyng balamasy joq. Sol sebepti de bireuden kórgenindi istey salmaysyn, barlyghyn basynan ózing oilap tabasyn. Taghy bir mәsele «Sheteldegi qazaq balalary» sheteldik azamattardyng bala asyrap aluy ýshin jasalyp jatqan jarnama emes! Óz perzentinen bezinip, kýl-qoqysqa tastap ketip jatqan adamdar, sharanasyn balalar ýiine ótkizemin dep jýrgen qyz-kelinshekter qanshama... Sol pendeler rayynan qaytsa, úrpaghynan bas tartpau, tentiretpeu ýshin, balalar ýiindegi kózderi jәudiregen býldirshinderdi jatqa jibermey, asyrap alsaq, memleket tarapynan qoldau kórsetilse, qazaq óz túqymynyng jalghasyna beyqam qaramasa eken degen niyette jasaldy. Sonday-aq shekara asyp ketken qazaq balalary men Qazaqstan arasyndaghy baylanystyng ýzilmeuine ýles qosudan túratyn tilek. Óitkeni tili, dini, mentaliyteti basqa bolyp ketse de, olardyng qany qazaq, qazaqqa tәn gendik aqparattar qandarynda saqtalghan.
– Sapar Ispaniya korolidiginen bastaldy... Ispaniyadaghy qazaq elshiligi men Bilim jәne ghylym ministrligining bergen mәlimetterinde qazaqstandyq balalardyng sany turaly әrtýrli derek keltirilgeni janymyzgha batty. Ne sebepti ekenin anyqtay aldynyz ba?
– Shetel asqan balalargha baqylaudyng dúrys jýrgizilmeui – basty sebep. Bilim jәne ghylym ministrligi, Balalardyng qúqyghyn qorghau komiytetining tórayymy Raisa Sher «ol kezde elimizde sheteldikter asyrap alghan balalardy qadaghalaytyn aiqyn, birtekti jýie bolghan joq» dep týsindiredi. Saldarynan qazaqstandyq balalargha qarsy jasalghan ozbyrlyq oqiyghalary da bizge kesh jetti, aldyn ala almadyq. Meni tandandyratyny, jetim balalardy sheteldikterding qamqorlyghyna beretin komiytet әrtýrli sebeptermen ózderinen jauapkershilikti ysyrugha tyrysady. Jobany bastaghan uaqytta ministrlik «qay memlekette qansha bala bar?!» degen aqparatty «qúpiya mәlimet» degen jeleumen maghan bermedi. Biraq ol tizim jәne sandar mende boldy. Tek komiytetting deregimen salystyrghym keldi. Biraq Amerikadaghy soraqy jaghdaydan keyin komiytet eshqanday resmy hatsyz, ózi baylanysqa shyghyp, barlyq aqparatty úsyndy. Osy tústa «Sheteldegi qazaq balalary» jobasy AQSh-taghy qazaqstandyq balalargha qatysty qylmys elge jetkennen búryn bastalghanyn aita ketkim keledi. Yaghny jobany jýrgizuge búl oqigha týrtki bolghan joq. Massachusets shtatynda tirkelgen oqighany Europada issaparda jýrgende estidim. Qazaqstangha amerikalyq erli-zayyptylar zorlaghan, qorlyq kórgen balalar turaly esep 2005 jyly ghana týsken. Keyinirek te ol balalardan esh habar bolmady. Olardy eshkim izdemegen. Saldarynan eki birdey balanyng taghdyryna balta shabyldy.
– Qanshama qazaq balasynyng taghdyryna kuә boldynyz? Ondaghy balapandardyng jaghdayyn kórgennen keyin «mýmkin, osy da dúrys shyghar» degen oigha qalghan sәtter boldy ma?
– Europa elderinde eluge juyq qazaqstandyq jetim balamen kezdestim. Olar turaly filimdi kórdinizder. Jaqynda AQSh pen Kanadadan issapardan oraldym. Búl memleketterde otyzgha juyq balanyng ómirimen tanystym. Uaqyt shekteuli. Amerikanyng ózindegi jeti myngha juyq balany aralap shyghu mýmkin emes. Balalar ýiinde tәrbiyelenetin býldirshinderding barlyghy derlik kemtar. Bilesiz be, qay jaghynan kemtar?! Jýrek, sana túrghysynan. Olar meyirimge, jylylyqqa, mahabbatqa zәru. Eshbir bala jetim bolmauy kerek. Tolyqqandy otbasynda tәrbiyelenip, jeke ózine arnalghan sezimge terbelip, jayqalyp ósui qajet. Osy jaghynan alyp qaraghanda ata-ana qamqorlyghynan shettetilgen balghyndardyng ózderin jaqsy kóretin, ónegeli tәrbiye, myqty bilim, bayandy bolashaq jasap beretin ortagha týskeni de jaqsy ma dep oilaysyn. Eng bastysy – ózderin baqytty sezinedi. Alayda memleketting qauipsizdigi, patriotizm, últtyq ruh túrghysynan alyp qaraghanda olardyng tili, dini, dili basqa, mentaliyteti ózge, tanym-týsinigi qazaqqa jat, kózqarasy bólek elderge berilui janyndy auyrtady. Búl – jetimin tentiretpegen, balasyn ózekke teppegen qazaq halqynyng tragediyasy. Keyde «biz kedeyshilik azabyn tartyp otyrghan Afrika elderimen teng bolghanymyz ba?!» dep oilaymyn. Óitkeni damy-ghan memleketterding birde-biri syrtqa bala bermeydi. Bala asyrap alugha bolatyn elderding tiziminde kósh bastap túrghanymyz ayanyshty. Tipti búryn balany ondy-soldy ýlestire beretin Qytaydyng ózi qazir búl mәselege asa saqtyqpen qarap, europalyqtar men amerikalyqtargha bala berudi uaqytsha toqtatypty. Óitkeni qyz balalardy shetke asyra bergen song elding ishindegi demografiyalyq balans búzylypty. Keybir memleketter shetke tek auru, mýgedek balghyndardy, al keybir elder óz dinindegi sheteldik azamattardyng bala asyrauyna ghana jol beredi.
– Shetel asqan qarakózderimizding boyynda qanday qazaqy element saqtalypty?
– Qandaghy gendik aqparat saqtalady. Olar jylqygha qúmar, sheteldiktermen salystyrghanda erekshe meyirimdi, talantty, daryndy. Kóshpendiler úrpaghy ekenderin maqtan tútady.
– Europalyqtar qazaq balalaryn alugha nege sonshalyq qúmar? Osy saualdyng jauabyn taba aldynyz ba?
– Men sheteldik azamattardyng barlyghyna derlik osy súraqty qoyyp shyqtym. Birinshiden, halyqaralyq bala asyrau prosesine aralasatyn basqa memlekettermen salystyrghanda, búghan deyin Qazaqstannan bala alu proseduralary óte je-nil bolghan. Yaghny Qazaqstannan bala alu sóz emes! Endi Gaaga konvensiyasyn ratiyfikasiyalaghan song búl mәselege memleket jýrdim-bardym qaramaytyn shyghar dep oilaymyn. Búl – bir.
Ekinshiden, sheteldikter ýshin qazaqtyng qanynyng tazalyghy asa manyzdy. Bizding balalarymyzdyng aghzasy Reseydegi siyaqty ishimdikpen laylanbaghanyn biledi. Qany taza úrpaq intellektualdyq jaghynan myqty bolady, alghyr, oiy taza, óte aqyldy. Sheteldik azamattargha da sanaly úrpaq kerek.
– Ázirge Ispaniya, Beligiya, Londondaghy qarakózderimizding taghdyryn kórdik. Aldaghy uaqytta qay memlekettegi qazaq balalaryn kóre alamyz?
– Qantardyng 16 júldyzynan bastap, baghdarlamanyng ekinshi kezeni bastalady. «Sheteldegi qazaq balalary» jobasy AQSh-tan jalghasady. Odan keyingi kezekte Kanada túr.
– Týsirilim barysynda qazaq balasyn qazaq eline kórsetuden bas tartqan otbasylar kezdesti me?
– Áriyne, múnday otbasylar óte kóp. Tipti kezdesuge kelisip, barlyghyn uaghdalasyp qoyghannan keyin de uәdesinen teris ainalghan ata-analar boldy. Qansha kelissóz jýrgizgenmen, kóndire almadyq. Olar dereu zangerlerding kómegine jýginedi. Zang boyynsha qazaqstandyq balalardy asyrap alghan azamattar bizben kezdesuge, súhbat beruge, balany kórsetuge mindetti emes. Tek bizding konsuldarymyz ghana balanyng túrmysymen tanysuyna haqysy bar. Sheteldikter qazaqtar siyaqty emes, óz qúqyqtaryn óte jaqsy biledi. Olardyng bas tartuyna bir ghana jauap bar – qorqynysh. Sheteldikter balanyng tughan ata-anasy nemese tuystary kórip, tanyp qoya ma dep seskenedi.
– Atalghan baghdarlamanyng sauaby mol desek bolady. Bir jaghynan shetelge ketip jatqan balalar turaly problema kóterildi. Endi bir jaghynan múhit asqan qarakózderimizding taghdyry turaly mol aqparat berildi. Osy baghytta aldaghy uaqytta josparlarynyz bar?
– Eng aldymen, jobanyng negizgi maqsatyn týsinip, osy mәselege bey-jay qaramaghan sheteldegi qazaq balalarynyng ómiri tolghandyrghan, keybir sәtte ashyndyrghan, әleumettik jeliler arqyly bolsyn, tikeley ózime bolsyn jobany talqylaghan, oiyn, rizashylyghyn bildirgen Últtyq arnanyng kórermenderine alghys aitamyn. Baghdarlamadan keyin bala asyrap alugha niyet tanytqan adamdardyng kóbeygeni
de – enbekting aqtalghany, tógilgen manday terding óteui dep bilemin. IYdeyadan iydeya tuady ghoy. Osy baghytta mening taghy bir ýlken josparym bar. Álemning 30 eline taralyp ketken qazaqstandyq jetim balalardyng bәrin bolmasa da, kópshiligin elge sayahattap keluge shaqyrghym keledi. Men ol balalardyng barlyghyn óz kózimmen kórdim, jan dýniyesine ýnildim. Sondyqtan eki aradaghy jip ýzilmese eken deymin. Sonday-aq «Sheteldegi qazaq balalary» jobasy aldaghy uaqytta da jalghasyn tabady dep ýmittenemin. Óitkeni búl – qazaq halqy ýshin qajet baghdarlama. Olar әzirge bala ghoy, boylarynda tughan jerin, ómirge әkelgen ata-anasyn jek kóru degen sezim joq. Keybiri, tipti taghdyrlarynyng qalaysha týrlenip ketkenin, ózgerip ketkenin әli jete týsinbeydi de.
– Ángimenizge raqmet!