Keyingi kezde, qazaqtar azaly dastarhandy "retteuge" asa qatty kirisip jatyr.

Ásirese, din osyny óz tәrtibine baghyndyrugha baryn saluda!

Biraq...

Búl mәselede júrtshylyq ortada asa bir óreskel búrmalaushylyq bayqalmaydy.

Aghayyn tuys jiylyp, "nan auyz tiysin" degen shamada dastarhan jayyp qoy - barlyq jerde oryn alghan.

"Qara jamylghan ýi, dastarhan jayylmasyn" dep, ol ýiding ensesin eze týsu - qazaly ýige óte auyr tiyedi.

Qaza qayghysyn jenildetu ýshin de, ol ýiden dastarhan ýzilmeui haq!

Qazaqtyng ejelden kele jatqan dәstýri osylay.

Al, endi, "dastarhany toydaghyday bopty" degenimiz - ol da óz saltyn bilmeuden, ne ony moyyndamaudan shyghyp jatqan dýniye.

Gýl-shoghy jaynaghan toy dastarhany men "qazaly dastarhandy" aiyra almaytynday - qazaq sonshalyqty daraqy emes.

Sondyqtan, dastarhan moldyghy túrghysynan kezdesetin az-kem aiyrmashylyqty sóz etuding de qajeti joq.

Barlyghy men birligi bar aghayyn qaytqan adamnyng qúrmetine moldau etip dastarhan jaysa - ony "ysyrap" dep emes, "qúrmet" dep qabyldap,  osy әuletting barlyghyna shyn tilektestik bildiriniz.

Ol da qazaly ýige dem beredi.

Dastarhan júpyny bolsa, onda da ony synaugha esh qaqymyz joq...

Sondyqtan, týiin mynau:

• Qazaly ýiding dastarhanyn moldyghyna ne azdyghyna qarap synau - qazaq ýshin úyat, sanagha qayshy minez;
• Qazaly ýige baryp kónil aitu, aruaghyna baghyshtap bata qayyru, otbasyn tirshilikke shaqyru - onda barghannyng basty mindeti.
• Dastarhan - otbasy tirshiligining jalghasynyng kórinisi - odan ózge maghyna bolmauy kerek.
• Azaly ýide oshaqtyng otyn sóndiru, qazandy tónkeru - jamanatqa jamanat shaqyru nyshany bolsa kerek...

Mine, osy sebepti, biz qaraly ýidegi jaghdaydy әr týrli spekulyasiyalyq talqygha saludan  aulaq bolghanymyz jón.

Oghan dinning de aralasuyna, "Dastarhany  alay bolsyn, bylay bolsyn!" dep ýkim shygharuyna esh qaqy joq!

Dastarhan - qazaq ýshin eng kiyeli úghym:

attaugha bolmaydy, basugha bolmaydy, qorlaugha bolmaydy.

Dastarhan - ómirding simvoly, tirshilik belgisi.

Endeshe, osy sanadan, osy mәdeniyetten qazaq ajyrasa - qazaq degen bolmysy da joyylady!

Osyny úqpaghan jan - qazaqylyghyn úqpaghan jan der edim...

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